The reality is pure logic. If a box is filled with apples, only to be found there, is what is placed before: apples. What may be very obvious in this case, you may not be so in daily life, so often struck by the fact of experiencing a different reality to the expectations, regardless of how you filled the past. When concrete life, from the very moment when two cells come together to continue playing in a continuous change until the end of it, fills with love, hate, balance, imbalance, selfishness, solidarity, fraternity, disunity , joy, sadness, company, abandonment, caresses, abuse, praise, insults and much more. If that life, that could be compared with the drawer, it fills with more or less of some element, that is what is going to offer society in which it develops, you can not expect excellence in a person who has not been educated with excellent values. That is the strategy used silent ancient cultures to perpetuate from generation to generation, without the need for specialized teachers or universities. Parents just need to fill their "little boxes" with what are, what they do and their reactions to the situations they face, to automatically, involuntarily, the "little boxes" absorb, to fill with these attitudes will use throughout their lives.
Of course all is not as tight, because otherwise there would be no evolution, and the proof is that humanity has evolved over time, where some are leaders and others follow behind. It also depends on the elements that were filled. There are leaders that transcend as positive role models and negative leaders, whose power is very short, and most of the sentence. Precisely, the negative leaders, were fed negative elements were generally abandoned children, discriminated against, or authoritarian parents who never were comfortable with them, or overprotective parents who acolyte all their actions, no matter what might be. And successful people generally are full of balance, between what the parents were and what they were taught to make a sacrifice, to value. Hence the importance of choosing very carefully what we are going to fill and we will fill our offspring, avoiding as much as possible the wrong thoughts and actions, so that the universal law of attraction, will benefit us when we give more, of what we already have.