At last, almost all the shown attitudes present as summary ' ' equilbrio' ': To love, but to impose limits; To watch, but not to suffocate; To give the example, but to leave the child to have its proper individuality. One of the best notice observed in this study was that to be good father or good mother he is something that can be learned and be trained. Bibliography: ROBERT, E. Essential Balance: 10 ways to narrow affection bows and to prepare the children for the life. Mind and Brain, So Paulo: Duetto, Year XVII, N 215, p.27-33